Putting it here because I don’t see it in the list:

Girl Genius by Kaja and Phil Foglio

Steam punk and she does get twitterpatted about some boys but the whole story is about her making her way in the world.

Not sure if you’ve already read Discworld but the Witch series fits a lot of your requirements. Maskerade would by my first for it’s hilarity.

italian tomatoes have entered the chat and agree with their golden apples.