• Cruxifux@feddit.nl
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        13 minutes ago

        Nah, the people who are hyper focused on the gender of the server as opposed to their actual quality of life in these situations are the weird ones.

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      15 hours ago

      Exactly, gender isn’t important. You could have done the convenient thing and they/themed the imaginary waiter. Why did you choose to go to the effort of assigning a gender when gender has nothing to do with your point?

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        12 hours ago

        Because it doesn’t actually matter what gender I used so I went with she and didn’t put much thought into it. I didn’t think people would be so soft headed as to actually give a shit because it isn’t relevant to the point at all. If I had said “he” nobody would have given a shit, something is wrong with y’all.

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      18 hours ago

      It’s not an attack, you don’t need to get so defensive. It just stood out to me.

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        18 hours ago

        Because serving is a female dominated industry where I am I guess?

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          So you’re maginalizating male service workers now? Are they less important?

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            12 hours ago

            Nobody is less important to me than you and your dumb ass opinion on the genders of waiters that has absolutely zero bearing on the point getting made.